A few years ago, I was speaking on the phone to a friend of mine who
was in a bishopric in another state and he asked me what calling in the
Church I was currently
serving. I enthusiastically answered, “I have the best calling in the
ward; I am the ward mission leader!” There was a long, awkward pause,
and then my friend responded with, “So, when do you think you are going
to have an important calling?”!
It is no surprise to anybody to know that there are people in the world
who measure their success by the type of position they currently have
in the Church. It is
“the nature and disposition of almost all men” (D&C 121:39) to have
temporal ambitions. It reminds me a lot of the man who had an
assignment to serve as a Sunday School teacher but decided that
particular calling wasn’t enough for him. He wanted to be the
Sunday School president. Then, and only then, would he be truly happy!
Once he became the Sunday School president, he would only be satisfied
with becoming the elders quorum president. Then, and only then, would he
be happy! Once he became the elders quorum
president, he wanted to be in the bishopric! Where does this process
end?
Seek Spiritual Gifts
What we really need to do, if we are sincere in our desire to serve the
Lord to the best of our ability, is to pray for the gifts of the Spirit
rather than seek
office. This may be more difficult than it sounds because the gifts of
the Spirit are generally invisible to others. In a world that values
titles, positions and notoriety, it can be very difficult for some
people to seek their true spiritual potential rather
than someone else’s idea of it. So what can we do about it? How can we
overcome this natural and carnal tendency?
Hugh Nibley makes an interesting observation here:
We are commanded not to ask for or seek for office. Yet nobody seems
particularly interested in asking or seeking for gifts,
while men constantly plan, scheme, and aspire to office.
Why this craving for office? Because office necessarily has high profile and prestige…. Gifts, on the other hand, are secret and private. (Brother Brigham Challenges the Saints, ed. Don E. Norton and Shirley S. Ricks [Salt Lake City and Provo: Deseret Book Co., Foundation for Ancient Research and Mormon Studies, 1994], 436–437)
Why this craving for office? Because office necessarily has high profile and prestige…. Gifts, on the other hand, are secret and private. (Brother Brigham Challenges the Saints, ed. Don E. Norton and Shirley S. Ricks [Salt Lake City and Provo: Deseret Book Co., Foundation for Ancient Research and Mormon Studies, 1994], 436–437)
I remember a time while I was serving my mission when I was assigned by
the mission president to take some missionaries over to the airport to
fly home. You can imagine their excitement. Interestingly, a few of the
missionaries were not excited at all to go home but wanted more time to
teach discussions to investigators and follow up with the ones that
they had left behind in their areas. They were
very excited about the possibility of these investigators joining the
Church. At the time, I was a relatively new missionary, and I found
these people to be wonderful sources of advice. However, there were
others in the car with me who were equally as excited,
just for entirely different reasons. I asked one elder what he was most
excited for. He told me, “I’m excited to get some lip action that I’ve
missed out on for the last two years!”
Afterwards, as I followed up on what that missionary had said to me, I
discovered some very interesting facts. He was unproductive. He was
bitter
toward the mission president because he had never served in a
leadership position, and he was what many would consider to be a
“troublemaker” in the various areas in which he had been asked to serve.
My point is this: Before any type of calling to a leadership position can come, we must first be
converted to what it is we are doing. We have to have a
testimony! We need to be an example of the believers (see 1 Tim. 4:12).
We need to be humble, meek, and submissive to the spirit and earnestly
striving to put off the natural man (see Mosiah 3:19).
We believe that this is a Church that is led by true revelation. The
Lord will not make His intentions known to people in responsible positions who are not
first doing the things they are supposed to be doing and who are not truly
converted to the gospel. James Allen has written in his book As a Man Thinketh
that essentially spiritual accomplishments are literally the end result
of holy aspirations. What do we think about when we have idle time or
just opportunities to
think?
Elder M. Russell Ballard gives some very helpful advice about first
showing the Lord that He can trust us in whatever circumstances or
trials
we are in. These are his words.
Do not let one day
go by when you do not demonstrate to the Lord that you are reliable,
that you are trustworthy, that you are dedicated….
After he has watched you and after you have demonstrated your
faithfulness by your service and by your ability to keep your priorities
straight in your life, along comes a need for a high councilor, a
Primary president, a Relief Society president, a bishop,
or a stake president; and the Lord makes it known to the responsible
priesthood leader that you are ready because you have lived up to the
commitments and promises that you made before you were ever born. (“You—The Leaders in 1988,”
Ensign, March 1979, 71–73; emphasis added)
A friend once told me that the Lord does not choose the qualified, He
qualifies the chosen. I have found this to be very true. One of the most
important things we can do in this life is to show the Lord that He can
trust us in any situation.
The Call to Teach
Many people in the Church have the belief that calls to a position of
leadership somehow make an individual more intellectual, more spiritual,
or generally more popular and, therefore, better overall. I remember
many missionaries who felt that unless they served as trainers, district
leaders or zone leaders, their mission was a failure. I submit to you
that a truly converted missionary understands
that these leadership roles are nothing more than administration jobs,
some requiring numerous hours spent traveling! How burdensome! When a
missionary is called, he or she is called to proselytize and to bring
souls unto Christ. Proselytizing is the ultimate
privilege for which a missionary works, prays, fasts, and aspires; the
task takes a great deal of spiritual effort. Imagine working so hard to
catch the spirit of your calling and then having to spend all your time
administering! There is a significant difference
between administering and ministering. The former is
something that needs to happen, but it does not make you any better than
someone who is ministering. Is it better to be a teacher and help
somebody to understand the gospel of Jesus Christ
or to be the administrator over the teachers? There is no greater
calling than that of a teacher. Even though these calls to
administration can still provide growth and development, teaching is the
most important. Let me illustrate the point with a quote from
the LDS Church News:
Of all tasks
associated with the work of the Lord, teaching could be regarded as the
most ubiquitous, the most fundamental…. Virtually everything pertaining
to the salvation and eternal life of God's sons and daughters
depends upon effective teaching. In the grand mission of the Church—to
invite all to come unto Christ and be perfected in Him—teaching is the
essence of each of the three dimensions: proclaiming the gospel,
perfecting the Saints and redeeming the dead. (R.
Scott Lloyd, “A teacher’s calling comes from the Lord; no duty is
greater,” LDS Church News [September 6, 1997], 16)
In a revelation to the Prophet Joseph Smith, the Lord said “Remember
the worth of souls is great in the sight of God” (D&C 18:10). We can
help
people to understand that worth through teaching.
Motives and Hidden Agendas
Some missionaries and other members of the Church begin to think that
they have to somehow impress the people who are in positions in order to
be called to leadership, as in the “good ol’ boys system.” Nothing
could be further from the truth! If we understand
why we serve, we aren’t concerned about where we serve or what position we obtain in the Church. Joseph Fielding McConkie once wrote:
God calls and
educates his own prophets. The idea is prevalent that with the call to
the prophetic office comes an endowment of spiritual ability,
understanding, and power that was not previously experienced and that
exceeds that which is enjoyed generally by righteous men. Challenging
that conclusion, Elder Bruce R. McConkie has written that a call to
positions of leadership “adds little knowledge or power of discernment
to an individual, although every person called
to a position in the Church does grow in grace, knowledge, and power by
magnifying the calling given him.” (Seeking the Spirit [Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1978], 33)
Spiritual education is a very difficult thing to achieve and to
develop. But principles like the one Elder Bruce R. McConkie is writing
about
in his book Mormon Doctrine take some time to accomplish! This
development does not make you any better than the person you lead, nor
does it make you any better than anybody else. As a matter of fact, I
believe spirituality is not an office. I do not
believe that faith is an office one can hold. Wisdom is not an office.
These are all gifts given to us by a loving Father in Heaven, but in
order for us to be able to use these gifts we first need to develop
them. I call these gifts from our Father in Heaven
“attributes of godliness.” I do not believe that these attributes are
entirely contingent upon calls to serve. I do not believe that they are
associated with age. Spiritual strengths and the gifts from our Father
in Heaven come from doing works of righteousness,
not from watching about the acts of others! Remember, in the Bible, one
of the books in the New Testament is called the “Acts of the Apostles”
not the
resolutions of the Apostles! In my opinion, the quality in life
that is most often faked is spirituality. It is easy to give out
appearances that you’re spiritual, but remember, bishops and stake
presidents are blessed with the gift and power of discernment.
You may be able to fool them for a time, but eventually they will know
the truth. Most of us will never serve in these positions, but that fact
can’t stop us from leading righteous lives and qualifying for the most
important position—the one on the right hand
of the Father.
Having proper motives is not something that is new to Church
leadership. We need to be sincere about the type of service that we
render. Is there
any question about the sincerity of Joseph Smith or Brigham Young?
Sincerity is evident in everything that they did! Elder John A. Widtsoe
had some very wise council that is even applicable to us in our day. He
said the following:
Obedience to law
must be impelled by simple honesty or sincerity. I wonder if we are
quite sincere in our obedience, or if we give to the Lord with hidden
motives in our hearts. We cannot be anything but sincere if
we are true Latter-day Saints. Men who give of their time, talents or
means without fully giving themselves, their hearts, only give in part. (Conference Report, April 1925, 29)
Not all of us are destined to be famous. We can’t all be illustrious!
The most important work we will ever do is within the walls of our home!
There is nothing more important! President Harold B. Lee once said:
I find some of our
brethren who are engaged in some leadership positions justify their
neglect of their family because they say that they are engaged in the
Lord’s work. I say to them, “My dear brother, do you realize
that the most important part of the Lord’s work that you will do, is
the work that
you do within the walls of your own home? That is the most important work of the Lord. Don't get your sense of values mixed up.” (Harold B. Lee, “Doing the Right Things for the Right Reasons,” in
BYU Speeches of the Year, [Provo: Brigham Young University, 1961], 5; emphasis added)
The work that we do in our homes will affect generations! Most of us
will serve out our lives in quiet faithfulness often with very little
worldly
recognition. That does not mean that we are not capable of serving in
these positions. I spoke with a stake president once who said that,
while he was younger, the Spirit whispered to him, saying he was going
to be called to be the bishop when the ward reorganized.
This scared him and made him reinvestigate his thoughts. Again after
much prayer, the quiet whisperings of the Spirit confirmed that he would
indeed be called to be the bishop. So, following through on that
confirmation, he sought heavenly guidance and chose
the people he wanted to appoint as counselors. The problem was that the
call never came, and another priesthood holder from the ward was called
to be the bishop. Why do you suppose that this worthy priesthood bearer
who was told that he would be the bishop
was not called? This confused him because he had always considered
himself knowledgeable in recognizing the promptings of the Spirit. His
Church credentials were impeccable! He was a returned missionary, he had
been married in the temple, and he had a valiant
testimony of the gospel. He was living worthy of his priesthood. He was
a seasoned leader familiar with the promptings of the Spirit. What had
gone wrong?
The answer came to him, slowly, but eventually. It occurred to him one
day that maybe the Lord was telling him that if the call were to come
to him to serve as bishop, that he would be worthy in every
regard to have accepted the calling. In fact, the Lord was pouring out
His love upon him! After coming to this insight, the Spirit bore witness
to my friend of his personal worthiness and he
was able to move on. The call to serve as a bishop did come eventually,
just not in the time or place he had thought. My friend learned the
importance of always keeping yourself worthy and continuing to serve the
Lord regardless of your position. President
Howard W. Hunter said this in his teachings: “We should be willing to
serve and grow quietly.
If you feel that much of what you do this year or in the years
to come does not make you very famous, take heart. Most of the best
people who ever lived weren't very famous either. Serve and grow,
faithfully and quietly. Be on guard regarding the praise
of men” (The Teachings of Howard W. Hunter, ed. Clyde J. Williams [Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1997], 67).
A few years ago, I discovered the following diagram written on a
whiteboard, almost as if somebody had been brainstorming. To me, it
clearly
explained the huge chasm that exists between means and motives. One
path is clearly the Lord’s way; the other path is the way Satan would
endorse. Let me illustrate.
Motive Means Goal
Christ: God’s Glory Free Agency Save all souls
Satan: Himself Force Save all souls
As I understand this, Christ’s motive is God’s glory. His intention is
to save all souls through individual free agency. Conversely, Satan’s
motive is himself. He wanted to save all souls through force and
manipulation. As I read this on the board, I asked myself if my motives
were pure, as Christ’s, and if I performed my duties to seek God’s glory
or if my motives were selfish and for my own gratification.
It is important to ask yourself if you are doing things to be seen of
men or to further the kingdom of God.
Another issue one needs to consider about positions of leadership,
whether they are in the Church or outside it, is the attached spotlight
or
the constant public adoration and scrutiny that comes with high
position. Did you ever think that maybe somebody quite capable was never
called to lofty position because that brother or sister could not
handle the spotlight? Can the Lord love someone so much
that He wants to protect him or her from that attention? Truly, only
the Lord can answer this question. But this, to me, is powerful
testimony that this Church is indeed run by revelation because this is
the Lord’s Church. He, and He alone, chooses His leaders
at the time He feels they are ready. He will choose them according to
His timetable and not ours. It really doesn’t matter how well connected a
person is, how sharply he or she dresses, how well he or she speaks in
public, how well he or she is groomed, or
even how well he or she builds connections. Only the Lord makes
the decision! In the scriptures we read that “[t]he Lord said unto
Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature;
because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not
as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord
looketh on the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7). Isn’t it nice to know
that, with God, we don’t have to worry about the superficial issues?
Public Praise and Recognition
The witty J. Golden Kimball had this to say about his calling to be a
General Authority: “A lot of people in the Church believe that men are
called to leadership in the Church by revelation and some do not. But
I'll tell you, when the Lord calls an old mule skinner like me to be a
General Authority, there’s got to be revelation” (Jack M. Lyon, Jay A.
Parry and Linda R. Gundry, eds., Best-Loved
Humor of the LDS People, [Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1999], 31). Along these same lines, Elder Marvin J. Ashton has said this:
Be careful, be aware, be wise when people speak well of you. When you are
honored, pointed out, and recognized, it can be a cross, especially if
you believe
what is said about you…. How great, how strong, how pleasing it is to
be recognized, honored, and respected, but we must realize in our hearts
that true greatness is visiting with the Savior Jesus Christ by helping
those who are sick, afflicted, discouraged,
homeless, and burdened with crosses. (Be of Good Cheer [Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1987], 38)
Elder Neal A. Maxwell, with his usual flair in the English language,
warned against seeking after the “spotlight of adulation” when he said,
“When we learn to shine as lights in the world (Philip. 2:15) there is no need to seek to be in the spotlight. Such lesser incandescence is of no interest” (Men and Women of Christ [Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1991], 28). He’s also quoted as saying
that “[t]he world’s spotlights are not only fleeting, but they employ inferior light!” (Cory H. Maxwell, ed.,
The Neal A. Maxwell Quote Book [Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1997], 160).
One way to avoid this “spotlight of adulation” is to literally lose
ourselves in performing service for others. This way, we become more
concerned
about other people’s well-being rather than our own. Service to others
is the medicine to take if we are feeling a little too much pride or if
we need to get our Christlike humility back. Have you ever noticed how
addicting service can be? Next time you perform
some sort of service to others without the intent of being rewarded,
take account of how you feel at that very moment. You’ll want to do it
again! Some of the best stories come from trying to do service to others
without being caught! Delivering a dinner,
mowing someone’s lawn, washing another’s car. The list is endless.
These examples are great service projects to do for family home
evenings, ones in which everyone can participate, regardless of age.
I had a missionary companion once who made a personal goal to do
something for someone else every day of his mission. Late one day, after
traveling
for some time to get to a particular area, my companion began getting
nervous because he had not performed any charitable act that day (in his
opinion). While we were driving, he noticed a large box in the middle
of the road. He quickly pulled over, snatched
the box, broke it down to fit in the car, then drove a little way into
town, found a dumpster, and threw the box away. After he had gone
through all of this trouble over a box, I asked him why he had done it.
He answered, “Just a little bit of service for
the day, Elder.” That attitude helped my companion to truly be one of
the “noble and great ones” written about in Abraham 3:22, which we will
discuss further. Remember, when we change what we believe, we literally
change what we do, how we act, and who we
are.
Complementing this idea, Elder Dallin H. Oaks said this:
Service to others
swings our spotlight of priorities outward, away from ourselves. To
counter pride we need to give unselfish service. No matter how prominent
or praised, the preacher is no better than the hearer,
the teacher is no better than the learner. To avoid pride, preachers
and teachers and others in prominent positions must struggle not to
esteem themselves above their hearers.
(Pure in Heart [Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1988], 143)
It is very dangerous to desire the limelight. As I wrote earlier, we
may be kept from certain positions because the Lord, who is the Master
of
all and knows us so well, may know that for us to have certain callings
or positions would be the means of our destruction! President Howard W.
Hunter has this warning for all members of the Church who desire to
serve in the more noticeable positions of leadership:
Beware of the spiritual danger of the spotlight.
I think we should be aware that there can be a spiritual danger
to those who misunderstand the singularity of always being in the
spotlight. They may come to covet the notoriety and thus forget the
significance of the service being rendered. You must
not allow yourselves to focus on the fleeting light of popularity or
substitute that attractive glow for the substance of true, but often
anonymous labor that brings the attention of God even if it does not get
coverage on the six o’clock news. (The Teachings
of Howard W. Hunter, ed. Clyde J. Williams [Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1997], 66)
How grateful I am to be part of an organization that does not petition
for position! Popularity will not get you into the celestial kingdom.
Complete compliance to the laws and ordinances of the gospel in
conjunction with service to others is the key that unlocks the door.
The Noble and Great Ones
Many members of the Church whom I have spoken to have the mistaken idea
that in order to receive a call to lead, they must first have been part
of that select group
of intelligences whom the prophet Abraham saw when he proclaimed, “Now
the Lord had shown unto me, Abraham, the intelligences that were
organized before the world was; and among all these there were many of
the noble and great ones” (Abraham 3:22). Who were
the “noble and great ones” that he saw? How can I become one of them?
What did they do that was so special?
It is my belief that
all members of the Church who are true and faithful to the
covenants that they have made to the Lord were and are part of this
select group. Certainly, some people have been selected in the pre-earth
life to fulfill certain stations while in mortality,
but we all have an individual purpose that we need to accomplish. We
all have an individual mission to finish. When the Lord said, “These I
will make my rulers” (Abraham 3:23), what did He mean by that? Could the
Lord have been referring to our next life for
some of us? Will we be rulers in the celestial kingdom when we are on
the right hand of the Father?
I believe
all of us who are faithful and diligent in keeping all the
commandments that we have been given are part of that great and noble
crowd. If we somehow deviate from that intended course, those blessings
that would normally have fallen to us would then
be given to somebody else. For example:
Even
though we have our free agency here, there are many who were
foreordained before the world was, to a greater state than they have
prepared themselves for
here. Even though they might have been among the noble and great,
from among whom the Father declared he would make his chosen leaders,
they may fail of that calling here in mortality. Then the Lord poses this question: “…and why are they not chosen?”
(D&C 121:34). (H. Don Peterson, The Pearl of Great Price: A History and Commentary [Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1987], 280; emphasis added)
There is a great lesson to be learned here, as well, with the following
points: “Two answers were given: First, ‘Because their hearts are
set so much upon the things of this world’…. And second, they ‘…aspire
to the honors of men’” (D&C 121:35). (Ibid., 280).
Clearly, in order to be considered one of the noble and great, we must
be able to do certain things. For example, we know that we have to be
obedient to the principles of the gospel. “And we will prove them
herewith, to see if they will do all things whatsoever the Lord their
God shall command them” (Abraham 3:25).
This point is not an option. We must do
all things. Not some, not most, but all. This point is nonnegotiable.
In reference to “[t]hese I will make my rulers” (Abraham 3:23), George Reynolds and Janne M. Sjodahl remarked thus:
God, the Father of
them all, saw that some of His spirit-children were more diligent in
serving Him than were others. He perceived that they were good. So
standing in their midst, He declared: “These will I make My
rulers.” “Abraham,” the Lord called him by name, “thou art one of them;
thou wast chosen before thou wast born.” (Commentary on the Pearl of Great Price [Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1965], 314)
It is my belief that in order to be a noble and great person we need to
do noble and great things. What actions imply these qualities? It can
be something as simple as spending more time with your children or
taking your spouse out on a date. I don’t believe that doing something
noble and great constitutes an earth-shattering event or a monumental
change. I believe that it is those simple acts that
many times go unnoticed. Think of some of the teachers you have had in
the past. Have they had any influence on you? Are you a better person
because of them? I submit to you that the greatest and most noble
calling we can have in life is that of a parent.
There is nothing more noble or great. The influence you have as a
parent easily determines the course of your child’s life and ultimate
reward.
When we think of past heroes, or key players in mortality, inevitably
we always think of Moroni, Helaman, Ruth, Mary Magdalene, Alma the
Younger
or Peter the Apostle. But even though these great people served in key
capacities, is there any question about the faithfulness of some of the
less visible players in our scriptures? How about Sam, the brother of
Nephi? He is mentioned only a very few times
in the Book of Mormon, but his faith is evident. What about Abish, the
servant to the queen of the Lamanites? Do you suppose that she was part
of that noble and great group spoken of in Abraham chapter three? What
about a faithful returned missionary? Certainly,
his or her loving commitment of spreading the gospel is a noble and
great act.
In the Book of Mormon there is an interesting and powerful verse that says, “Now behold, Helaman and his brethren were
no less serviceable unto the people than was Moroni; for they did
preach the word of God, and they did baptize unto repentance all men
whosoever would hearken unto their words” (Alma 48:19; emphasis added).
Many times we forget about those people who serve in quiet faithfulness
and whose lives are not in the public spotlight. I submit to you that
they are “no less serviceable” than any of the key players found in our
scriptures. There are many names of faithful Saints that could be
mentioned here who live unnoticed by most, but who, because of their
righteousness, are much greater than they know.
I testify to you that we can all be part of that vast group of noble
and great ones spoken of in the Pearl of Great Price. The meaning of
serviceability
to mankind is simply a matter of understanding and perspective. We
don’t need the spotlight to be able to earn all the blessings promised
to us in the scriptures. These blessings are promised us not because we
are in the spotlight but because we are actively
doing the works of righteousness.
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